In the beginning, it's exciting. You can't wait to see your BF or GF — and it feels amazing to know that he or she feels the same way. The happiness and excitement of a new relationship can overpower everything else.
There are few feelings worse than being dumped. But being the one to end the relationship may be a close second. Finally, resist the urge to soften the blow with platitudes.
I've felt apprehensive about writing on this topic and have thus avoided it for a while. Then today I read this articleand realized it was time. I know most of you can relate to this topic; some of you have been on both sides of the experience, and some of you only on one.
After all, you truly cared about this person at one point. Maybe you even loved them. Maybe you still do.
Sometimes in a relationship, you're not sure how to phrase a delicate subject or tricky topic. Sure, saying nothing at all is easy, but avoiding the subject doesn't do anyone any good. Awkward Conversations provides you with a template for what to say — and what not to say — and why, so you can have those difficult discussions without them turning into full-blown fights.
Weirdly, there are wrong ways to do it though, which seems unfair. This is perhaps a controversial opinion but hear me out: nine times out of ten, you can just stop texting them. This is not the same thing as ghosting!
Sure, some people have - gasp! We are constantly in a grey area which makes one of the trickiest part of our exploits, well, ending them. And after how many dates do you have to end it in person rather than with a perfectly-worded message?
Breakups aren't reserved for people who've been together for years — sometimes, you need to end things with someone you're not even sure you were really dating or sure that you weren't dating. I've certainly been dumped by many more men than I ever knew I was dating, and honestly, it was nice to have the relationship defined at some point as over. If you find yourself in the situation where you need to breakup with someone you were never really datingyou're not alone.
My feelings had begun to wane, but we already had plans to eat takeout at my apartment for our third date. Not entirely sure of what to do while in this romantic grey area, I figured I would just let him down gently in person that evening. Breaking things off should be a piece of cake!