Ever wonder what guys think, how to deal with them, or whether instead of listening to you they just imagine you naked? Our Real Live College Guy Joe will answer all your questions about college men and relationships with wit, clarity, grace, and physical attractiveness can you tell he wrote this intro himself? Well, usually — he is a college guy.
Love is awesome. And in order to find it, you sometimes have to swallow your pride, put yourself out there, and take some scary risks. Not having a life.
Cuddling post-sex should be reserved only for someone you actually have a commitment with, not for hookups. Most people just want to enjoy the last strains of ecstasy in silence; some would even turn their backs on you afterwards. If you really want to at least talk to this person for a good few minutes, then steer the conversation away from personal stuff.
Women kind of get a shit deal when it comes to casual hookups. You meet some cute stranger at the bar, go home with him and then the next day, reality hits. What if he never calls again? What if you actually could have liked this person and now ruined our chances?
The question used to be, how long should a guy wait before calling a girl after getting her number? But, with technology taking over our lives and our smartphones being glued to our hands, it is now about what to text a guy after a hookup. But, what do you say?
Especially when it comes to attraction and the dance of love. Lately, this romantic and fun little Christmas song has come under fire for being kind of … sort of … maybe… a wee bit rapey. We need to actually SAY that?
Hooking up with a guy through text messaging can feel awkward and intimidating. To successfully hook up with a guy via text, you need to be able to flirt, ask to hookup over text message, and to prepare yourself for the date. Fancy going for a beer or 3?
Dating in the modern world that we live in these days can be really hard. You're not alone if you've been finding it really difficult to tell who's just in it for the hookups and who's actually out there searching for a real relationship. It's easy to hide your true intentions in order to protect yourself from getting hurt. Because there's nothing worse than being the one who cares too much, right?
Man Up Ep. F or over a decade, David Tian, Ph. Tian has been featured in international media, including AXN, Cosmopolitan, Psychology Today, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.
Why is it always so weird to send that first message after sex? You'd think after you've seen their fun parts you'd be more relaxed, but no, it's actually even harder pun intended. What is the post hookup text etiquette? Is it OK to reach out, or are you supposed to wait and let them make the first move?