Anal sex is not everyone's cup of tea. The mystery and taboo that surrounds it might make it seem like the big thing everyone wants to try, but the bottom line is that some people like it and some people don't. So how can you tell if you do or you don't without doing, at least once?
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Q: Anal sex is new territory for me, but not for my partner. Now he wants to share that experience with me… by sticking his finger in me. Is this safe?
Which is a good thing! Women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex.
Lots of straight men are turned off by the idea of anal play to be fair, many bi and gay men are tooand as a result are missing out on a whole world of fun. This is the third in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here.
Maybe you've always found anal sex intriguing but never worked up the guts to try it, or perhaps you weren't curious until a friend started singing its praises. No matter the reason behind your attraction to the idea, diving into that uncharted sexual territory can be scary. What if it hurts like crazy?
Emma Kaywin, a Brooklyn-based sexual health writer and activist, is here to calm your nerves and answer your questions. Q: My boyfriend has been talking to me about trying anal sex. I'm open to the idea, but I want to know more about it first.
Solo anal play is one of the best, and most comfortable, ways to get started with anal pleasure. When it comes to first time anal, feeling a finger, toy, or penis can be a very surprising sensation. Practicing solo anal play gives you the chance to be both the giver and the receiver, which is super helpful when you add another person to the mix. A good way to get started with your solo exploration is by setting the stage.
Anal sex is still somewhat taboo, but this foggy belief is dispersing, thankfully, because anal sex is the shit OK, poor phrasing, I see that now -- but expect more to come. Assuming this disgust is a product of the gruesome fact that poo comes from that area, I can certainly understand this sentiment, but rest assured, this can all be rectified rectum-fied? No, a thorough wiping won't do the trick, unfortunately, this kind of thing is going to take a bit more work, but it's worth it, I assure you.
Back when the ladies of Sex and The City discussed anal sex, it shocked audiences. But since then butt play has been shown on Girlshinted at on The Mindy Projectand rapped about by Nicki Minaj —to name just a few pop culture references. The stats seem to support this theory: Between and only about 9 percent of women and men reported having entered through the back door within the previous three months. Heterosexual anal sexuality and anal sex behaviors: a review.